Showing posts with label Self-care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-care. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

When your....

....life is prioritized in a way that makes sense for you,
you experience definite satisfaction and
true contentment.








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notes...

The guys are off to work
Fritz is my side-kick today
the sunflowers are starting to burst
the praying mantis was at the front door
I was it's uber to the garden
it was so happy for the ride it jumped for joy
and I had to search on my hands and knees
 to take it's picture
whispering a prayer that the severe storms 
pass by our little town tonight
and everyone is safe


learn to laugh at yourself
more freely

don't take yourself so seriously

enjoy life lightheartedly

' a cheerful heart is good medicine'

 keep your faith uncluttered

happiness will come from setting the priorities
you need for the dream you have locked into

make decisions about what it best for you
based on your priorities

be well...
xoxo
💝

"Today is the perfect day to create the change you desire.
Life is too short to dwell in misery, hoping that someday
things will change. 
You could make a million excuses as to why right now isn't 
the right time, but then you will never find the perfect time
to do anything.
Perfection is just an illusion.
If we keep waiting for the stars to align,
we will reach the end of our lives regretting that
we never tried.
Stop the waiting game and take action toward the 
change you want."

~Sunrise Gratitude~









 

Monday, June 8, 2026

Nothing in this....

...world is permanent,
including our stories.









Keep reinventing your story
as you continue to grow.

notes...

He wanted to spray before it rained,
I went along. The calves cleared a path
up to the pond.
#62 reminds me of Blondie when she was young,
I felt a nibble on my back when I was taking her picture.

replace your old story
with a newer happier story
redirect your focus
breathe it in
bombard yourself with it
get into new habits 

record blessings and small things 
your grateful for 

choose thoughts that help you flourish

don't let your brain boss you around

take small positive activities

you don't have to gain a bunch of knowledge
or figure it all out

be an authentic version of yourself

you don't need to conform in order
to belong

your true greatness will not come out
if you try to be what someone else 
wants you to be

make the most of what you're given

you are custom made

growth and change 
are inevitable

do you want to do something
awesome for God?
Go be you!

be well...
xoxo
💖

"Talk less. Listen more. Feel deeper.
Love better. Open your eyes.
Experience life."
~unknown~

"Listen and silent are spelled
with the same letters.
Think about it."
~unknown~

"The truth you believe and cling to
makes you unavailable to hear
anything new."


Sunday, June 7, 2026

Serendipity feels...

...like a big hug from the universe.







Timing is everything.
Celebrate these moments.

notes...

Rain showers on and off, all day in pj's,
The Story of David
popcorn and sloth mode with Angie.

the world is filled with beautiful things

go all out in love so if your understanding
of the truth changes
you're still good

a well nurtured soul
can actually improve your appearance

set your heart to listen

show up just
the way you are

be well...
xoxo
💝

"there is beauty in the mundane.
life doesn't have to be constantly
adventurous or exciting to fun or worth living,
there's beauty in spending a saturday baking
cookies and reading a good book.
there's beauty in taking a hot shower
after a hard day.
there's beauty in ordering pizza and watching
a movie with your best friend.
these things are just as worthwhile
as traveling the world
or skydiving.
you're allowed to appreciate
small joy, as well as big joy.
you'll be happier for it."
~unknown~














 

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

Feed your mind...

...full of images, things
and experiences you want in your story.







Be picky about listening to the stories that you
or others have been telling over your life
that just aren't true.

You'll know if it's God telling the story
because it will always be one filled
with hope, possibility, peace and love.

notes...

the stories you tell yourself
shape you

breathe in hope 
breathe out your life

spend your days looking for virtue

look for virtue in others
not ridicule

keep it positive
stay engaged
push back against the chaos
with love

it isn't about positive thinking
it's about being  positive about your purpose

plant your feet on solid ground

worry is a debilitating state of mind

take time to listen for the ever-present
voice gently guiding you

you are more powerful
than you give yourself 
credit for

everything you've been through
prepared you for where you're headed

your life is a beautiful tapestry
of triumph

you are capable of great things

Quiet your soul
listen to your spirit
wait for guidance

give yourself the benefit of
the doubt

look over your past and remember
God's faithfulness
look at your future 
and trust Him now

the scars are only there to remind you 
that you're human

the power to unleash you
is your faith

you have nothing to lose 
and everything to gain

you have got to get a handle on your thoughts
if you want to change your life

clear out the chatter in your brain
create a clean uncluttered space
to impress the thought of what 
you want

believe

do what you can to make some upgrades
to where you are now

be well...
xoxo
💗

"As a general rule, your life story is more interesting
the longer you can postpone 
the living happily ever after."

"Somewhere amid life's endless distractions
lies it's purpose,
each of us deciding for ourselves
which distraction it is."

"...it is when the desire to go forward 
is greater than the memories of pain
that a person has the power
to create again."

"Sometimes what we think we want
isn't what we need-
and the pursuit of it causes us
resistance and anxiety.
When you find yourself in the midst of this
type of confusion,
take some time to center yourself and find
your intuition:
your deep inner well of wisdom.
Surrender to what is meant to be
and let go of whatever you are holding
on to.
Answers arrive when we let go and make room 
for what's meant to enter."

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ,
he is a new creation;
the old has gone,
the new has come."
2 Corinthians 5:17










 

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Every time you worry...

 

...'you strangle the life out of your life.'


'Personal stress is at record levels.
The highest it's been since World War II.'

The top stressors:
job
health
relationships
poor diet
media overload
lack of sleep

'Keep your mind on good things,
be content in all things,
refuse to worry about anything.

"Worrying about something you cannot change
is worthless.
Worrying about something you can change 
is stupid."

'Worry is learned &
you can unlearn it.'

"We are the only thing God made
that doesn't trust Him."

'It's worry that makes you sick.'

'The only thing that worry changes
is you.'

'You are as happy as you 
choose to be,'

'The battle is between your ears.
What you feed your mind with
will determine the level of stress
in your life.'

"Mind pollution is the most 
serious pollution.'

"Some people are so open minded
their brains fall out."

"If you look at the world, 
you'll be distressed.
If you look within,
you'll be depressed.
If you look at God, 
you'll be at rest."

~Corrie ten Boom~









Saturday, May 2, 2026

In your simplicity...

...dwells your power.


'Silence means rest, rest of body and mind
in which you become available for 
Him whose heart is greater than yours.'

Give up control over your actions and thoughts,
allowing something creative to happen
not by you but to you.

Silence is that moment in which you not only 
stop the discussion with others
but also the inner discussions with yourself,
in which you can breathe in freely
and accept your identity as a gift.

It is in this silence that the Spirit of God
can pray in you and continue His 
creative work in you....

Without silence the Spirit will die in you
and the creative energy of your life will float 
away and leave you alone, cold, and tired.
Without silence you will lose your center and
become the victim of the many who demand
your attention.'

( from  a Henry Nouwen reading)

some notes:

there is no randomness about your life

walk in the here and now

every moment is alive

ground yourself in truth and prayer

be still 

set aside a time for listening
blocking out distractions
reconnect with your soul

find the still-quiet place within you
a dream is planted there
discover what you want to do in this life
faithfully pursue it with integrity and hope

without this time
your soul becomes malnourished

set priorities 
and do the most important things first

stand in awe of the life around you
be merciful

learn to trust yourself
take care of yourself

simple awe is not complex
not expensive
sunrises & sunsets are free

live so much in awe of what's going on 
around you,
there's no time to live in judgement
of others around you

resist the distraction of comparison 
& criticism

be calm and quiet by yourself
fully awake & following with
close attention every move 
going on inside of you

seijaku (Japanese)
tranquility, serenity or active calmness
profound inner stillness and peace
maintaining a steady focused mind
a quality of quiet, even when noise is present

stay home with yourself

there's no shame in not having the answers

healing feels like finally finding a friend that understands
it might taste like the morning air that reminds you
of your freedom to breathe

when the mind gets quiet
something beautiful happens

you are most beautiful on the inside.

be well...
xoxo
💝

"In the end it's probably less important that you believe in God
than that there's a God who believes in you."

"I understand now that the vulnerability I've 
always felt is the greatest strength a 
person can have.
You can't experience life without feeling life.
What I've learned is that being vulnerable to 
somebody you love is not a weakness,
it is strength."

~Elisabeth Shue~











Tuesday, April 21, 2026

A sense of wonder...


...in the small touches of goodness, sweetness,
beauty, and innocence in life.
 

Plan A. volunteer at the barn.
  Turned to plan B when client cancelled.
There was no plan B.
Let go, and go with the flow.
A quick wardrobe change from farm clothes to Tai Chi attire,
and an hour to spare. 
Decide to...
walk at the Zoo.


Heart stolen by an adorable 4 year old (ish) boy in the petting zoo.
I pet. He pops a pellet in their mouth.
"Great picture!" he says every time I snap a shot.
"Why, thank you buddy!" 
We do this for some time....switching goats.
(Mom and baby sister too)
 Time runs out.
 I get up ( from squatting position) to leave.
He looks at me all excited, holds out his small hand (for mine)
 and in a sweet little voice...
"C'mon....lets go see
the rest of the animals."


notes & quotes...

direct your thoughts to the good

distractions result in drifting
every time

fill you life with decisions not distractions

replace distraction with direction

retrain your brain
focus on what you are grateful for
life is full of opportunities to reframe negative,
and practice finding the positive

there's a new way of living
if your willing to step into it

approach each day with enthusiasm,
anticipation, and determination
to live in alignment with life

remember, joy is your internal guidance system
when you are in a state of joy or happiness,
you are doing something right

find small glimmers of light that remind you
to just relish in the moment

rest in the in-betweens

where you find gratitude you find rest

learn to live unhurried


be well...
xoxo
💖

"If you want change to occur, 
you must do something about it.
Like a caterpillar goes through the process
of creating a cocoon,
you too can do the hard work to create the 
transformation you desire.
Success doesn't happen overnight;
a process is required.
Do something every day that serves your 
desired result.
Each stride will change you just a little
and prepare you for what's next.
Eventually you will emerge,
like a caterpillar from the chrysalis,
transformed and more vibrant."





















 

Sunday, April 19, 2026

Yard work...

...and gardening are therapeutic for me.
Now it's time to treat my neck to a little TLC.


" Stretching is such a vital part of my routine.
It allows me to maintain my flexibility,
enhance mobility, and recover faster."
~Tom Brady~

"Just like a rubber band, 
if you don't stretch regularly,
you'll become stiff and inflexible."

be well...
xoxo
💗





 

Friday, April 17, 2026

Incoming storms...

.....sourdough bread still warm from the oven,
with butter & honey.
Clothesline fresh rugs on freshly mopped floors,
and the hallway closet's


annual transformation from pantry to
tornado shelter.
 
The things that soothe...

note:

Neurosurgeon called
appt. for the end of the month

hold onto the good

create space

ride the winds of passion in your life

let go of things that no longer
serve you

take a break from processing your thoughts

tend to your responsibilities
and don't take things so 
personally

trust yourself

live and experience life
let things happen

remain calm and confident

do not be dismayed

meditate

learn to love the person you're responsible
for taking care of-
yourself

be well...
xoxo
💞

"Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do...
but how much love we put into that action."
~Mother Teresa~

"When the world feels like an emotional roller coaster,
steady yourself with simple rituals.
Do the dishes. Fold the laundry.
Water the plants.
Simplicity attracts wisdom."




Friday, April 3, 2026

Take action...

...to move toward the vision of life you 
desire.


You get to decide the way it will go.

"Your vision will become clear
only when you look in your own
heart"
~Carl Yung~

Notes to self,

Appreciate and non-compete.

'the shoe that fits one person
pinches another'

you are complete

remove debris and clutter from your heart

it is impossible to have a need
God cannot meet

miracles of transformation happen every
day

'a mystery-ridden life is still filled with light
and it's OK to have days where you are
still learning what that looks like.'

relief, release, and change are possible
when you simply accept

taking the wrong path is not dangerous
pouring all your will into serving that path
is

stop investing in what has lost it's meaning

a thought is not forever
if you don't like it
release and change

accept who you are

trust the magic that acceptance brings

be well...
xoxo
💝

"If the art of the magician to to distract attention
from what's really happening,
then what is life but the ultimate
magic trick?"

"Never mind searching for who you are.
Search for the person you aspire to be."

"May this be the season of courageous pursuit:
to fully enjoy the present moment
right in front of you,
no longer restrained by heavy mind
and things to do,
choosing to believe with bold faith
today is worth a long and loving look."






 



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