Showing posts with label Habits. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Habits. Show all posts

Thursday, October 1, 2026

We must empty....


....'ourselves of all that fills us,
so that we may be filled with what we are
empty of.'

~Augustine

clearly His hand is in this...Luke 1:66 MSG


notes...

a gust of wind, and then the rain,
so I moved everything in again
cushions and quilt thrown on the floor
breathing in the moment through an open door
~

Beautiful reminders this morning...
(sources: Jesus Calling, Jesus Lives, The Message Bible & Charles Stanley devo.)

His ways are higher
and  He is capable of all you need

pursue a righteous life-
a life of wonder, faith, love,
steadiness & courtesy
seize the eternal life

..listen to the wind words

His heart is full of unfailing LOVE 
for you

you can relax and enjoy His presence
since you know He is taking care of you

your tendency to be anxious
grieves Him
awareness of His pain can motivate you
to break free from this hurtful habit

He is showing you the way
one foot at a time
Luke 1:79 MSG

surprise us with love at daybreak;
then we'll skip and dance all day long
Ps. 90:14 MSG

walk right up to Him 
and get what He is so ready to give.
Take the mercy & accept His help

He will take care of everything you need

He wants you to obey Him out of Love,
Joy, & Gratefulness-
not out of obligation

He wants to pour Himself into you
and shine through you
and give you a genuine Love

His purpose is never to break your spirit
or cause you pain
there is always a positive, crucial
eternal purpose in struggles

He works all the details together
for the good to those who love Him

you may not be at fault for what has happened to you
but you are accountable for your response to it

be well...
xoxo
💖


"So whatever you experience & however broken you 
may feel because of the trials that assail you,
always remember that I have a blessing in store for you.
Never give in to the thought that this is the end
or that there's a limit to My ability to redeem
even the worst, most pain-filled experiences
in your life & turn them into something worthwhile.
Accept that I know your pain,
I am powerful,
I love you unconditionally,
and I work in the unseen for you. "

~Jesus~


"When you speak to yourself, be more like a cool breeze
and less like a furnace of judgement.
Give yourself love and accept yourself exactly as you are.
Honor the journey you've been on with acceptance and appreciation.
As you wake up, think about all the things you have
accomplished.
Give yourself gratitude and love.
When you slow down to recognize who and what you are,
acceptance comes in like a breeze,
making everything better."

~Sunrise Gratitude~







 

Sunday, September 27, 2026

Whatever we are today...


....is a result of what we've been thinking.


notes....

'What you think about is what controls you.

Your mind controls everything else in your life.

The mind is a battlefield in every persons life.

If your mind is filled with unpleasant things,
you suffer the result.

We sow a thought and reap an action.
We sow an action and reap a habit.
We sow a habit and reap a character.
We sow a character and we reap a destiny.

You are the one that determines what you're going to be.

Start thinking rightly.

Where will these thoughts lead me?
Will these thoughts get me where I want to go?
Will these thoughts build me up or tear me down?
Do you feel guilty thinking these thoughts?
Do these thoughts fit who you are as a follower of Jesus?

Some thoughts don't fit you.

What is best for you?
Seek those things.

Set your mind.

You decide your victory or defeat in your mind

Your feet are going to travel where you set your mind.

Say no.
You can say no.

He brings about the changes in your life.
He knows what you need.
He knows how to provide it.

be well...
xoxo
💝


 

Thursday, September 3, 2026

What if...

...we could make the most of the detours
we didn't plan on,
and discover what there is to see and 
explore along the way?


What if we braved the long way
with our mind set on learning,
adjusting, and opening our hearts
to fall deeper in love with life?'
What if we hit the pause button and resist
the urge to fix something or someone
letting the good and bad grow together
trusting God to sort it out when the time is right?
What if it gets us where we want to go
because it gets us to where God want's us to be,
no matter how inconvenient &
 even if we didn't think we wanted to be there?


notes...

...the purpling sky at dusk 
the warmth of a friend's understanding
the laughter from a child as he splashes in the lake
a flock of geese swimming to shore then taking
flight so close I can feel them as I stand with my feet 
in the water...


a refreshed, revitalized mind is able to sort 
out what's important and what's not

have a steadfast heart

do not worry about your life
(Matthew 6:25)

while it's fun to imagine yourself differently
don't get trapped in a life
thinking you need to be different

remove your focus away from the complexities 
of your own broken heart
toward Jesus

embrace His unconditional love

God doesn't want us to be a better version of us
He wants us to be a more accurate reflection of Him

don't miss your prayer and meditation time

get your mind clear
you don't have to be captive to bad experiences

if you're not flexible enough to change 
what's in your head
you can't change your life

change your mind
or you won't change anything else

allow a new truth to be planted in your mind

the sooner you develop a clear mindset
the more efficiently you will use your time

appreciate the value of time
by focusing on what's 
in front of you
not by lamenting what is behind you

the years zoom by

time is your most valuable resource
it can not be reproduced or replicated

learn to guard it and hold it precious

live on purpose 
make conscious choices

there is no going back
live in the present today

God is in the subtle nuances

be well....
xoxo
💞

"The peace of God is tranquility and quietness
of the soul.
it is the assurance that,
no matter what is going on around us,
everything is secure."

~Dr. Charles Stanley~

"Did you know your thoughts,
habits movement, sleep, and nutrition
can all help you rewire your brain
through a process called neuroplasticity?

Small choices, repeated daily,
can have a profound impact on your
mental health and your life."

~Dr. Mark Hyman~

"The butterfly counts not months but
moments, and has time enough."










 

Tuesday, September 1, 2026

You have two options: ...


'forgive the offender completely
or refuse to let go,
believing they owe you something
to make up for what they've done.


notes....

slept well, woke up early,
felt off...maybe tired? It was a "thing".

first read of the day...
"When you don't forgive, a barrier of bitterness
grows & obstructs My Love from entering in."
~Jesus~
&
every message that followed 
 stayed on topic
 when I finally wrapped up my morning
time out
I had clarity about the "thing"
and a butterfly flew past
landing beside the hummingbird
in the garden
~

if you harbor resentment 
your hurting yourself without reason

forgive those who've hurt you
it is crucial
for you to live freely

have an accurate view
of all you've been forgiven
so you can understand others

don't remain captive to your hostility
any longer

when you harbor bitterness toward others
it will affect you profoundly
and time does not heal those injuries

the poison of an unforgiving spirit
can damage the entire person if left unhealed
(emotionally, spiritually relationally, and even physically)

you are not injuring them with your bitterness
you're only hurting yourself

the only cure when resentment has taken root
is forgiveness

nothing else does the job of genuine
healing

you have been shown an enormous amount of grace
don't carry a grudge

'be yourself 
and let others be themselves-
because that's the starting point of God's love.'

now is the time
where you are is the place
and who you are is deserving

choose forgiveness

let go of your hurt
when you can't
Jesus can

'whatever you have been through,
whether heavenly or horrific,
it will serve a meaningful purpose in your life
if you allow it to.'

they are all stepping stones to a higher place
if you open up and allow them to be

sometimes your perceptions have to change to give
you a fresh perspective of your circumstances

don't get stuck in your past

don't allow painful memories
to keep you from what you were 
created to do

you are valued and loved

steer away from negative behavior...
you're better than that!

forgive yourself
embrace who you are

influence someone in a beautiful way
~


because it's fun...

butterfly...
freedom
playful grace
living fully in the moment
renewal
breaking free from old habits

hummingbird...
savoring life's small pleasures
staying grounded and fully
engaged in the present
and finding nourishment in everyday
moments

be well...
xoxo
💓

"The beauty of forgiveness is that it requires only a forgiving party.
it does not require a party worthy of forgiveness."

"To forgive the forgivable is merely justice,
an accommodation of a reasonable mind.
To forgive the unforgiveable is true forgiveness,
an accommodation of a merciful heart."

"Be kind and compassionate to one another,
forgiving each other, just as in Christ
God forgave you."
Ephesians 4:32

"Bear with each other and forgive one another 
if any of you have a grievance against someone.
Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Colossians 3:13












 

Wednesday, August 12, 2026

Respect yourself....

...instead of catering to your
insecure need to be liked.

Cardiologist with Hubs today

When you love yourself
enough to stand in your own truth
no matter what the cost,
everyone benefits.


notes...

Watering in the dark. Gorgeous breeze
it feels amazing, and the chimes...
Thank you God!
I love my mornings so much !
My peace, growth, healing, belonging
acceptance and love....
all take place in the mornings.
 I learn and unlearn,
ground, center and fuel up.
I start my day in peace
and hope is restored.


"Never apologize for who you are.
It lets the whole world down."

God doesn't lead you to the safest path forward
but one where you'll grow

do not compare yourself with others
who seem to skip along with ease

break free from other peoples disapproval

let others take you as you are
or not at all

trust God deeper
He supplies your needs
He is dependable

Co-create with Him
play your part in the world
quit playing it safe
with what you believe to be true

it takes no effort to be negative 
 cynical and pessimistic
it's  the natural black hole
that
corrodes your faith
weakens your immunity
zaps your energy
compromises your relationships
and robs you of joy

negativity is a self-inflicted wound

forgiveness is the most powerful 
thing that you can do

you have a choice

your thoughts can be different
your character can change
and your life can be transformed
 
be mindful of where your thoughts are taking you 

focus on your progress 
not perfection

it's not easy but simple
the difficult cringy thing 
is living with the consequences
of NOT changing the way you think

 make truth the keynote of your life
move closer to your heart
not away from it

this is not a journey about becoming something
it's a  journey of unbecoming what we're not

love always chooses to love

be well...
xoxo
💗


"Do things while you can and while they matter
to you,
because neither is a permanent state of affairs."

"You have no idea how long something you say
can stay inside someone's mind."

"If some remedy doesn't work,
try less of it before your try more of it."

"I spend an insane amount of time wondering
if I'm doing it right.
At some point I just remind myself
that I'm doing my best.
That is enough."

"God whispers to us in our pleasures,
speaks in our pains:
it is His megaphone to rouse
a deaf world."
C.S. Lewis









Sunday, July 12, 2026

You have....

...the powerful gift of choice-
the ability to select the direction of
your life.


Some lead to abundant life & others
divert you away.

 notes...

this week's pick
(more ads than usual to skip through...
consider it a test...challenge....whatever motivates you to stick to it😉)

'uncontrollable thoughts can ruin your life

compulsions & habits can mess up your life

fear can destroy your life

hopelessness keeps you from keeping on

bitterness is a cancer that will eat you 
alive 

you
always hurt you
the most

insecurity will cause you to do
foolish things

you have a power 
greater than willpower

keeping laws 
never work

transforming change
changes your nature

you start in your mind

whatever gets your attention
gets you

you don't resist it
you replace it

what you resist 
persists

you have the ability to say no
to destructive habits

not everything natural 
is good for you

"Baby!...."

if your afraid
that's not from God

your filled with love, power
and self-control
it doesn't make you a nut
it makes you more human'

be well...
xoxo
💗





Sunday, July 5, 2026

While you are waiting...


...don't put your life on hold.


notes...
this weeks repeat listen..


'God sometimes has to work on you 
before He works on the solution.

There is a natural delay between planting 
and harvesting.

You don't plant and harvest
 in the same season.

There is a war between good and evil
and you are caught in the middle.

....the dart of doubt, discouragement, 
disappointment, depression.

A delay is not 
a denial.

You are being prepared for a blessing.

He is more concerned with your character.

Troubles test your faith.

When you're going through hell...
keep going.
You don't want to stay there.

Waiting is always a test.

Write down the lessons your learning.

He wants you to learn
before the seed will sprout.

We wonder...we worry...we whine....

Waiting is the time your develop the habits
and skills needed.

Keep praying
 asking
searching
seeking

God cannot steer a parked car.

Trust

His plan is good.

His timing is perfect.

Sometimes you think you are waiting on God,
but He is waiting on you.

Don't give up.
"I will not let you give up.
I will beat you!" '

be well...
xoxo
💖

"Decide that no matter what is going on around you,
you are not going to let it change
what's going on inside you."

"Don't ever let anyone convince you
that your intuition is nothing but insecurities."
~unknown

"Your beliefs don't make you a better person.
Your behavior does."
 




 

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Love finds us....

...where we are,
not where we were.


Blondie, 62 and Buddy






notes...

There was a knock on the door...
Ellie came to visit.
We had left the gate open to the road...
Blondie and Buddy kept with us as we drove back...
we sped up, they sped up,
we sped up, they did the happy dance
and sped up too.
We almost didn't win.
T1 likes to come up an nibble on me.


your renewed heart 
will be better
than before

be forward thinking

God meets you where you are
uses your story
and guides you into a better story

you are a mosaic 
of those who have loved you

give up the desire to have full control-
you don't

attempting to control things
will never solve the problem
it only makes things wonky
and ends up controlling you

you get to choose who &
what you allow in your life...
(thoughts, habits, beliefs....)

explore different solutions

make choices to improve the
quality of your life

you are designed to change
when you choose to

the way you live
will influence future generations

Be very careful, then, how you live-
not as unwise but as wise...
Ephesians 5:15

let go of beliefs 
that do not serve you well

believe that change comes from you

get better at things you 
know will help you

ask
seek
knock

request
search
action

deep breath in...
exhale...
be aware of your moments,
be well...
xoxo
💖

"I asked, "How can anyone who really knows me
ever love me?"
Only to discover it was the only way
anyone ever would."

"Yes, there are reasons no one could ever love you,
and you can be sure that the people who
love you know them all."

"It's not easy--loving someone through
the chinks in their armor--
especially when the love they return
is so often trapped inside."
















 

Saturday, May 16, 2026

Lay your...


...burdens down,
and come alive right here,
right now.

Instead of looking for things that need 
to be done...

concentrate on the task before you.

Let everything else...

fade into the background.

notes...

hold plans tentatively

the most important thing to determine
is what to do right now

unclutter your mind

don't be lulled into sleepwalking
through your days

you make a difference
your choices impact others

you may feel lost
when you're actually in
the process of finding your way

don't panic when a chapter of your
story doesn't make sense
God writes really good stories
stay close to Him

find ways you can experience
a joyful, meaningful life
& an inner sense of contentment

discover your part in life
your role
enter into the place you've been invited
live it fully

"Don't be afraid. Just stand still & watch
the Lord rescue you."
Exodus 14:13

you do not become less valuable
as you age
you become more of who you are

find a way to get out of old
unhealthy patterns

choose habits that help you flourish

keep growing and changing into a
healthier person

don't let your brain boss you around

focus on the positives
and the good in your life

quit settling for less

be well...
xoxo
💝

"Adapt what is useful,
reject what is useless,
and add what is specifically
your own."
~Bruce Lee~

"It is not a daily increase,
but a daily decrease.
Hack away at the inessentials."
~Bruce Lee~

"The most basic strategy is to get time on your side.
The most basic tactic is to sit and wait."

"A milestone in life is the day the challenge
of discovering who you really are
is replaced by
the challenge of being the person
someone thinks they married."







Tuesday, April 14, 2026

Sometimes...

..."you've got to let everything go...
purge yourself.


If you are unhappy with anything...
whatever is bringing you down,
get rid of it.
Because you'll find that when you're free,
your true creativity,
your true self comes out."
~Tina Turner~

I like that!

I myself struggle with being creative today
as I have outside chores to do before it rains...,
& my head is still slightly swollen 
from receiving a lovely compliment
 ( from the instructor & one of 
my mates)
 on my form and flow yesterday in Tai Chi.
Grateful. Encouraging. Uplifting.
I practiced all weekend.


notes lately...

when you are talking to yourself
watch your language

you strengthen what you put your attention on
keep your mind on the things you want
and off of the things you don't

if you were never frustrated by something.
you would never seek a solution

practice until it becomes second nature

simply take action
knowing is not enough, you must apply
applying is not enough, you must do 

step-by-step
trust the process

be thankful for quiet days,
when nothing special seems to be happening

remember you can choose the subject of your thoughts
let go of discouraging ones

refuse to get discouraged

each moment provides a fresh opportunity

God can't add beautiful things to your life
if there's no room in your life

keep space open for more beautiful
things to be added
get rid of old hurts, beliefs, and memories
you've collected over time

allow life to surprise and delight you
let yourself enjoy life as you go through
the day

release the grip on things that keep you bound

let go of lesser things

glow up your life with gratitude & be specific
recognize the gifts and call them out

every good and perfect gift is from above...
James 1:17

prayer is a lifestyle
position your heart

the sweetest moments in life happen unannounced

seek moments of ease
allow yourself moments of peace

make room for the delightfully unexpected

be well...
xoxo
💖

"Of Time and Space I don't know much,
But this I'm pretty sure of--
That both are things that doesn't hurt--
To give someone a bit more of."

"It's hard to change someone's mind
who believes in their head bone."

"It seems, in youth, that everything we do is practice
for the real thing,
a rehearsal for some future grand debut.
And then the years go by,
and we look back and realize,
that the practice was the real thing,
the rehearsal the grand debut."

"Absorb what is useful,
discard what is useless,
add what is specifically your own."
~Bruce Lee~

"I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000
kicks once,
but I fear the man who practiced one kick
10,000 times."
~Bruce Lee~





 

We must empty....

....' ourselves of all that fills us, so that we may be filled with what we are empty of.' ~Augustine clearly His hand is in this......