Sometimes...

..."you've got to let everything go...

purge yourself.

If you are unhappy with anything...

whatever is bringing you down,

get rid of it.

Because you'll find that when you're free,

your true creativity,

your true self comes out."

~Tina Turner~

I like that....

I myself struggle with being creative today

as my head is still slightly swollen 

from receiving a lovely compliment

from a Tai Chi classmate on my form and flow

yesterday.

notes lately...

when you are talking to yourself

watch your language

you strengthen what you put your attention on

keep your mind on the things you want

and off of the things you don't

if you were never frustrated by something.

you would never seek a solution

practice until it becomes second nature

simply take action

knowing is not enough, you must apply

applying is not enough, you must do 

step-by-step

trust the process

be thankful for quiet days,

when nothing special seems to be happening

remember you can choose the subject of your thoughts

let go of discouraging ones

refuse to get discouraged

each moment provides a fresh opportunity

God can't add beautiful things to your life

if there's no room in your life

keep space open for more beautiful

things to be added

get rid of old hurts, beliefs, and memories

you've collected over time

allow life to surprise and delight you

let yourself enjoy life as you go through

the day

release the grip on things that keep you bound

let go of lesser things

glow up your life with gratitude & be specific

recognize the gifts and call them out

every good and perfect gift is from above...

James 1:17

prayer is a lifestyle

position your heart

the sweetest moments in life happen unannounced

seek moments of ease

allow yourself moments of peace

make room for the delightfully unexpected

be well...

xoxo

💖

"Of Time and Space I don't know much,

But this I'm pretty sure of--

That both are things that doesn't hurt--

To give someone a bit more of."

"It's hard to change someone's mind

who believes in their head bone."

"It seems, in youth, that everything we do is practice

for the real thing,

a rehearsal for some future grand debut.

And then the years go by,

and we look back and realize,

that the practice was the real thing,

the rehearsal the grand debut."

"Absorb what is useful,

discard what is useless,

add what is specifically your own."

~Bruce Lee~

"I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000

kicks once,

but I fear the man who practiced one kick

10,000 times."

~Bruce Lee~

 

Journaling space....

...where the Robin sings her morning song from the maple tree,

 doves coo back and forth in the distance, and jet noise 

echoes in the dark, clouded sky.

Writing down thoughts on morning pages 

& savoring my first sips of coffee,

 while the old retired preacher begins his daily morning walk across the street.

"A mile and a half." he shared once.

He's dedicated.

I wonder if this is his "God time", like this is mine.

Polly is playfully bouncing about chasing a dark,

bird-sized moth that

flutters just out of her reach.

A cool breeze moves in and I take a deep breath.

I start to think of my people.

The video I received last night from my nephew...

how most of the men in my family have served in the armed forces,

and how strong and resilient the women are,

and how they all laugh at themselves, and find 

humor in life's challenges.

Their stories.

And my friends who have been like family.

Our stories.

I am filled with gratitude and appreciation.

A goose flies solo overhead.

I settle deep into the details of my moments, my story,

and relish this time & space for my thoughts.

A place just to be.

A space that's getting harder to find 

in the real world.

A place where I can sit in silence

and get to know my own voice.

morning notes...

second morning on the porch this year..

focus on your own peace

silence is powerful

trusting is a moment-by-moment choice

allow difficulties to be your greatest teacher

hard times shape you more than you realize

you either become a reflection of your pain,

or a reflection of your hope

*rain*

"In the old days, a logbook was a place for sailors to 

keep track of how far they've traveled,

and that's exactly what you're doing-

keeping track of how far your ship has sailed"

#journaling

you appreciate things 

that a busy world convinces you

 are not worth noticing

bless the highs & lows:

they are what make life

a magnificent story

Breathe. Relax. Go with the flow.

bring your full attention to each moment

find the beauty & the awe

be well...

xoxo

💖

"Wherever you are, be there totally."

"Yet they need not accept this-

help is within themselves.

You can feel it within you-

an inner drive for happiness.

The close interrelation between this Inner You

and this Outer You,

the almost uncanny power of each to change the other-

can change you from drabness to

joyous self-fulfillment."

~Ad for Pond's Cold Cream March 1949~ 

"You can look at optimism and pessimism

as two different outfits in your closet,

and you decide each morning

which one you are going to wear."

April 11, 2026

Time goes by so fast....

one minute my kiddo is here,

and I have a dog.

 The next minute, four days

have flown by, and they are packing up

to head back home

leaving  grass seeds scattered on the bathroom floor (from work),

and a red ball laying in the middle of the living room.

Sometimes I miss having a dog. 

Sometimes.

They make great walking companions,

and it's a great way to connect with other 

people. 

You can't do that with a cat.

I've seen my neighbor try.

notes lately...

you are always in a state of creation

you create your reality in every moment

of every day

you can choose to focus and think 

about the things you want more of in your life

and experience more of the things that 

make you feel good

create your best life

bring some good friends with you

choose love, always

it always protects, always trusts,

always hopes, and always perseveres

(1Corinth 13:7)

when there isn't clarity in a situation,

why not assume the best?

"A promise is only as good as the 

character of the one making it."

Peace is an umpire

It there is a lack of peace,

stop

you are created for relationships,

and communication is the heartbeat

of a strong relationship

where others fall short,

God fills the gaps

show up for your vision

move in that direction every day

"Your future is created by what 

you do today, not tomorrow."

keep your mind on what truly matters

allow life to flow freely

with acceptance and calmness

when you feel you've reached a dead end

turn back & trace the path

that connects to other streets

other people

there are ways of getting where you're trying to go

you might just need a little help

there's no shame in asking for directions & guidance

(it happens to be my specialty :)

live like you are loved

because you are

deep

abundantly

and with love that will not fail

be well...

xoxo

💖

"Nothing last forever,

although we often underestimate how long

it will last in the meantime."

"Life is a collection of moments

you might have appreciated more

if you had only known they were moments."

"It's not the meaning of life we seek.

Life is getting the kids off to school

and the dog fed.

It is the meaning of meaning we seek."

April 10, 2025

It was raining, muggy & warm.

Our nurse managed to snag the last

available oscillating fan.

I selected the Flintstones on TV, and my doctor

was going to lunch to eat spaghetti.

He didn't get to finish.

It's utterly crazy that it was 31 years ago!

Happy Birthday Brandon!! I can't imagine 

life with no you.

xoxo

be well...

💝

"Fall in love with the art of living.

Fall in love with letting things be.

Fall in love with listening.

Be still in the sun,

where the winds ever-gently blow,

knowing it is here,

in  moments like this,

you are living,

and you will grow."